
For atep hawa of the Maren class, a string of eight beads must be given. A pair of blackish beads, with one mandatory lukut bela or
The next item to be given is the tawak12. It symbolises protection for a long lasting relationship. The malat buk - a ceremonial sword commonly known in Sarawak as parang ilang is the next item and it symbolises the law. If one of the parties does not fulfil his or her part of the deal, traditional Kayan law will be imposed on them. These three items are mandatory and constitute the basic engagement tokens.
Apart from the mandatory engagement tokens, additional traditional paraphernalia like the sunong (war jacket) made of animal skin and decorated with eight honorific bird feathers could also be given13. The war jacket is also decorated with beads of particular patterns (usually snakefish, dragon, and tiger) and finished with a large seashell14. Next is the tabin (seat mat for a loin cloth) which is also decorated with elaborate patterns. Then comes the lavung dok or male headgear decorated with 8 honorific bird feathers. The kelebit (shield) with a human face can only be given by the Maren class. The bah' or loincloth is also given but it is decorated beautifully with beads. The bakin or spear which is made from temehah wood / kayu ara / hardwood is also a common item given by the Maren class as an engagement token. Lastly sarongs numbering eight in total are also presented. The giving of the sarongs creates the feeling that the man is with the woman whenever she wears the sarong.
In the past, due to the stratified nature of the Kayan society, even the creative output of the artisans was dictated by status. Only the Maren were entitled to have large intricate murals in front of their family amin, wear delicately and beautifully decorated beaded caps and waistcoats. A talented artisan belonging to the lower classes could produce these beautiful works of art for the Maren but he would be compensated with special beads to "protect his eyes" (to ward off illness or misfortune) when he begins work on creating designs meant for those above his social level.